I am at the point in my life where and when I feel that i am actually 100% adult. But yet I feel so insecure and uncertain with things.
How I call myself as an adults. I earn my own money, I support my family, I pay my own bills (ON TIME) , I clean my own place, I buy my own groceries, I do my own laundry, I try to manage my own schedule between family, work, friends and life, I make life-changing decision and I am 25.
And then at every moment start being in this quarter of a century that I find myself a little wiser than yesterday.
This is what I need and now finally realizes by the age of 25:
1. If you don't question what you believe in, you end up making the same mistakes over and over.
We often fall into the same mistake over and over and we just couldn't find out what is happening and why it doesn't work up, why do our old ideas aren't working.
At this point, we must, must, must ask ourselves two questions:
(A) Is this idea I'm acting on even effing true?
(B) What would happen if everyone in the world believed this idea and behaved as I'm behaving now?
And then you will realize why.
2. Make goals a real goal
Goals are not a January 1st kind of thing. Try to set them weekly. Or set them monthly. Set them so that you are moving forward and always trying to progress.
We don't wanna move backward or step on the ground, time don't wait for us to move.
3. Confidence is a sexy thing
And, there's nothing sexier than a woman who knows who she is, confident and happy. Embrace yourself; be confident, sexy and happy
4. The smaller your circle, the lesser the stress
Overtime since high school, you have learned that not everyone who call you dear is so dear to you, and not all facebook friend are actually your friend, or true friend in real life. You learned that no matter how many hundreds, thousands of follower and "likers" you have on social media, you can only count on the realest people with just your fingers.
Get out of it and have a real life friend.
5. Family means everything
This is something we always hear from the older people when we were still young and reckless. But now you really learned its essence to the core of your being after years away from home chasing after what the future holds for you.
You learned that at the end of the day, the sweetest idea will always be that you will always have somewhere to go and your most favourite people in the world are there waiting for you.
6. Your lover/ Partner is you best friend
You will learned that there's really not a constant need for a girls talks and all that because you have the world right by your side.
You learned that though love is not measured in the years you spent together, but the years will always be intangible proof of your solid partnership against the world and it will always be a source of proud for you.
What we found in a soulmate is not something wild to tame, but something wild to run with.He will be the one person who know you the best, better than anyone else.
7. Not everyone's gonna be nice
We try to imagine the world to be as sweet as possible. A much as we wanna live in a perfect world, you will always have the chance to come across people who seem to do nothing but burst someone's bubble. But even if the world is getting out of your way, be positive, learned to love yourself and respect yourself and that you have a protection to protect yourself from getting hurt by those unhealthy people. In fact, learned to make a opposite out of theme. you will learned that the world is beautiful and have beautiful people in it. So try your best to inspire people, motivate people, move people by living your life the most positive way it could be.
8. GOD is an Awesome GOD
You learned that He is guiding, moulding you all along and that all your wishes, your dreams have been granted in many different ways. In even a better way than you can thought of or imagined of. You will learned to surrender everything to HIM- your disappointment, your burden, your struggle, sorrow, regrets, guilt, dreams and your success.
With God, everything will be okay.
XOXO
AGNES
